Add account self-delete and subscription lifecycle sync (#34) (#39)

## Summary
- Closes [#34](#34)
- Companion for [chat_web_app#75](ai_ml_operations/chat_web_app#75) (portal cancel/change local sync)
- Soft-delete `DELETE /api/user/` for the authenticated user only: `deleted=True`, `is_active=False`, hide conversations, blacklist outstanding refresh tokens; staff self-delete rejected
- Stripe `customer.subscription.updated` / `deleted` webhooks sync plan status, `cancel_at_period_end`, and `current_period_end`; checkout assigns plan from `metadata.plan_slug`
- **UserAuthEvent audit**: `account_deleted`, `subscription_started` (first active plan), `subscription_updated` (plan/status/cancel changes) — visible on user admin
- Document FE contract in README (endpoint, response, post-delete logout)

## Test plan
- [ ] `uv run python manage.py test chat_backend.tests.test_views_users.CustomUserSelfDeleteTestCase finance.tests`
- [ ] Authenticated `DELETE /api/user/` soft-deletes self, hides conversations, blocks re-login, writes `account_deleted` auth event
- [ ] Checkout / Backer assign writes `subscription_started`; portal cancel/change writes `subscription_updated`
- [ ] Anonymous / staff self-delete rejected; body cannot target another user
- [ ] After portal cancel, webhook sets `cancel_at_period_end` / `canceled` on `GET /finance/subscription/`Reviewed-on: #39

llm_be/finance/views.py

@@ -199,6 +199,12 @@ class SubscriptionMeView(APIView):
             "stripe_subscription_id": (
                 sub.stripe_subscription_id if sub else ""
             ),
+            "cancel_at_period_end": bool(sub.cancel_at_period_end) if sub else False,
+            "current_period_end": (
+                sub.current_period_end.isoformat()
+                if sub and sub.current_period_end
+                else None
+            ),
             "usage": usage.to_dict(),
         }
         return Response(payload)